The Couple troubles they are an inevitable part of any relationship. But it is up to us to solve them adequately or allow them to become crises that are difficult and painful to solve.
Each person has their way of being, their values, way of thinking, previous experiences and learning, expectations, etc. And these have to adapt to those of your partner.
If you think we can help you. You can check with our sexologist psychologist specialized in problems related to women's health, and their integration into the world of the couple.
Solve couple problems Institute of Gynecology of Barcelona Dra. Gómez Roig. Our department of psychology and sexology offers you these medical services.
There are many problems that can affect the couple, but we will focus on explaining those related to sexology and sexuality problems.
What sexual problems can women have?
The female sexual problems They can cause marital problems.
At the same time, they can also affect a person's self-esteem and emotional stability.
sexual dysfunctions that women can have include:
- Pain during sex.
- Problems to have a pleasant relationship.
- Lack of orgasm during intercourse.
- Lack of sexual desire.
Sometimes the sexual problems They are transitory, but can persist over time.
If they cause you concern or problems, do not hesitate to consult the specialist.
The situation can improve with a little help.
Can I do something to improve my sexual problem?
If you have this problem, and it affects your relationship, you can try to improve it.
You should consult a specialist. Some of the advice that psychologists-sexologists usually give can be:
- Talk with the partner about what it feels like and what happens.
- Schedule a regular, recurring date where people can get intimate and be alone.
- Read books or information about sexuality.
- Consult a sexologist.
Women with pain or vaginal dryness they can improve if they use vaginal lubricants that gynecologists prescribe.
It is also important to have healthy lifestyle habits.
You should go to the doctor and receive treatment for any disease you may have.
Women who feel healthy and happy are more likely to be satisfied with their sex lives.
Should I see a specialist?
a woman should consult a specialist if you don't know what's wrong.
The appearance of these sensations or concerns may require the help of a doctor or specialist.
This can help to find out the cause or reasons of the problem.
To do this, he will take a complete medical history and examine it.
What kinds of sexual problems do men have?
The types of sexual problems in men may include:
- Impotence or erectile dysfunction.
- decrease or disappearance of libido.
- Ejaculating too quickly after starting sexual intercourse: premature ejaculation.
- Not being able to ejaculate
There are some factors that can cause men to have trouble getting or keeping an erection:
- Aging.
- Diabetes.
- Arterial hypertension.
- Smoking, drinking alcohol, or using drugs.
These men's sexual problems They can also appear when you feel depressed, worried, or have other things on your mind.
Sometimes, this problem can also be a side effect of taking medications.
Are there treatments for dysfunctions of sexuality?
These sexual dysfunctions They can be treated in different ways, depending on whether it is a woman or a man.
Brianda of
These can improve:
Using vaginal lubricants or creams to treat atrophy and vaginal dryness.
- Ante mood problemsreceiving the appropriate treatment.
- Changing the medicines that can cause alterations.
- performing physiotherapy pelvic floor to relax the muscles around the vagina and relieve pain.
- During menopause, some hormonal replacement treatment can help.
It is generally not recommended that women take the same medicines that men take for sexual problems.
Nor are medicinal plants recommended to improve these issues.
In the case of men
It can be recommended:
- Medicines to help you get and keep an erection.
- Devices to maintain an erection
- Hormone treatment with testosterone.
- Treatment to improve mood.
- Medicines to delay ejaculation.
- Adjustments in treatments that interfere with sexuality, for example, adjustment of the dose of antidepressants.
How do relationships change when you get older?
sexual relationships can change with age. Despite this, they can continue to produce satisfaction as one ages. These are not considered relationship problems.
As women advance in age may:
- Have less libido.
- Have difficulty lubricating.
- Appear pain or discomfort due to vaginal dryness.
- Increase the difficulty to feel pleasure.
On the other hand, as the men grow old, may:
- Have less interest in relationships.
- Needing more stimulation to get or keep an erection.
- Appear problems to achieve pleasure.
Why do sexuality change with age?
Sexuality changes with age under the influence of various factors, for example:
decreased sex hormones.
This is more sudden in women as they enter menopause.
In men the variation is more progressive but they also experience changes.
Diseases companions that appear with age.
Surgeries or medical treatments.
Depression or anxiety.
Tobacco consumption excessive in men.
Couple troubles. Sometimes couples think differently about sex, have different interests, and this can lead to problems.
How do I know if I should see a specialist?
If you are happy with the quality and quantity of sexual intercourse you have, and you don't feel pain, you don't need to see your specialist.
If, on the other hand, you are not satisfied with your sex life, see your doctor. It may suggest solutions for it.
When you go to the visit, bring all the medicines you usually take.
Your doctor will be able to help you better if you explain your Couple troubles with confidence, and understands exactly what is happening to him.
Can I have sex if I have had a heart attack or major illness?
If you have suffered a infarct or another serious illness, the thought of having sex can be scary.
Despite this, most people who have had a heart attack or similar seizures can have it again. sexual intercourse in a safe way.
It may take some time for it to stabilize, but for the most part it can be done.
It is important that you consult your doctor, and be the one who advises you. Not all cases are the same and recommendations must be individualized.
If at any time, or over time, problems of this type appear, it is necessary to share it with the couple.
If the problem affects, or is based on, sexual problems, we advise you to consult a specialist.
It will give you confidence and security, at the same time that it will offer you tools to face situations that are sometimes somewhat complex.
On Institute of Gynecology of Barcelona Dra. Gómez Roig Psychology and sexology medical services are offered to face the problems in a humane and professional way. Couple troubles.
Do not hesitate to consult and trust us. In our consultations, these types of concerns are addressed frequently and naturally. Trust our experience.
Adaptation of UptoDate 2019
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Head of the Obstetrics and Gynecology Service at the Sant Joan de Déu Hospital in Barcelona. Associate Professor of Obstetrics and Gynecology and Coordinator of the Sixth Course of Medicine at the University of Barcelona, UB. Director of the Dra. Gómez Roig Institute and Coordinator of Obstetric and Gynecological Processes at the Corachan Clinic in Barcelona.